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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 02:10

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

And i lived it daily.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

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Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Why did i forgive my father ?

I was 9 years of age.

Which is a better option, a love marriage or an arranged marriage in India?

She wouldn,t have been !

This is soul school!.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

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It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

She was in good health!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

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I could never make a relationship work though!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Why do some children hate their parents?

He knew the spot.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

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I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

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She found it foreign!.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

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And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

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Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

My life is so biszare .

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

She married twice! .

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

My family never makes their pension either.

Who then, do I blame.?

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I said to her

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I was seconnd youngest,

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

All the time i was locked up.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I will be 64.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

But it wasn’t much.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

She loved him until the end.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

I write beautiful poetry .

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

One cannot live in the past .

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I couldn’t, believe it.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

So, i spoilt her more .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I was scared of men, in general

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Would this be the day?

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I know ,a lot about trauma.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Im still living with it.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I have no regrets .

Put me off passion for life!!

So whats the point in blame.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I think the readers, may guess!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Ive learnt so much.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Especially a lifetime of it.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

(And it was in our own minds.)

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I waited trembling.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

It was going to be , some day.

I never cut or harmed myself..

Comes on , in middle age.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

We were not on the streets..

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

When she asked me how she looked .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

We all went to grammer schools

But, we were locked up after school.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Im dying but, im not bitter.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I was very sick at this time too.

What did i know ?

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

He resisted the act ,that day.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

I don,t even have a pension.

As i do to all so called friends.?